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'if' by rudyard kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If
you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be
tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated, don't give way to hating, And yet don't
look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master, If you can think - and not make
thoughts your aim; If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you
can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your
life to, broken, And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And
lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breath a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve
and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will
which says to them: "Hold on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with kings - nor lose the
common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If all men count with you, but none too much; If you
can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that's
in it, And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
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"DON'T REPEAT THE LORD'S PRAYER, PRAY THE LORD'S PRAYER
"Our Father which art in heaven," --- Yes? Don't
interrupt me. I'm praying. But you called me. "Called you? I didn't call you. I'm praying.
'Our Father which art in heaven," There you did it again. "Did what?" Called
me. You said, "Our Father which art in heaven." Here I am. What's on your mind? "But I didn't mean anything by
it. I was, you know, just saying my prayers for the day. I always say the Lord's Prayer. It makes me feel good, kind of like
getting a duty done." All right. Go on. "Hallowed be Thy name." Hold
it. What do you mean by that? "By what?" By "Hallowed be Thy name?" "It means. It means........
Good grief, I don't know what it means. How should I know? It's just a part of the prayer. By the way, what does it mean?" It means honored, holy, wonderful. "Hey that makes sense. I never thought about what "hallowed" meant
before." "Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven." Do you really mean that? "
Sure, why not?" What are you doing about it? "Doing? Nothing, I guess. I just think it would
be kind of neat if you got control of everything down here like you have up there." Have I got control
of you? " Well, I go to church." That isn't what I asked you. What about your temper? You've
really got a problem there, you know. And then there's the way you spend your money-all on yourself. And what about the kinds
of books you read and what you watch on TV? "Stop picking on me! I'm just as good as the rest of those people
at church." Excuse me. I thought you were praying for my will to be done. If that is to happen, it
will have to start with the ones who are praying for it. Like you, for example. "Oh, all right. I guess
I do have some hang-ups. Now that you mention it, I could probably name some others." So could I.
"I haven't thought about it very much until now, but I'd really like to cut out some of those things. I would like
to, you know, be really free." Good. Now we're getting somewhere. We'll work together, you and I. Some
victories can be truly won. I'm proud of you. Look, Lord, I need to finish this up here. This is taking a lot
longer than it usually does. "Give us this day our daily bread.You could cut out the bread. It would help
you lose weight. "Hey, wait a minute! What is this, 'Criticize, ME day?' Here I was doing my religious duty, and all
of a sudden you break in and remind me of all my hang-ups." Praying is a dangerous thing. You could
wind up changed, you know. That's what I'm trying to get across to you. Keep praying. I'm interested in the next part of your
prayer. (Pause) Well, go on. " I'm scared to." Scared? Of what? "I know what you'll say."
Try me and see. "Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us."--- What
about Ann? "See? I knew it! I knew you would bring her up! Why Lord she's told lies about me, spread stories about
my family. She never paid back the money she owes me. I've sworn to get even with her!" But your
prayer? What about your prayer? "I didn't mean it." Well, at least you're honest. But it's not
much fun carrying that load of bitterness inside you, is it? "No. But, I'll feel better as soon as I get even.
Boy, have I got some plans for that neighbor. She'll wish she had never moved into this neighborhood." You
won't feel any better. You'll feel worse. Revenge isn't sweet. Think of how unhappy you already are. But, I can change
all that. "You can? How?" Forgive Ann. Then I'll forgive you. Then the
hate and sin will be Ann's problem and not yours. You will have settled your heart. "Oh, you're right. You always
are. And, more than I want to get revenge against Ann, I want to be right with you. But.......(Pause)................(Sigh)............
All right. I forgive her. Help her to find the right road in life, Lord. She's bound to be awfully miserable now
that I think about it. Anybody who goes around doing the things she does to others has to be out of it. Someway, somehow,
show her the right way.--- There now! Wonderful! How do you feel? "Hmmm. Well, not bad. Not bad at all. I feel pretty great.
You know, I don't think I'll have to go to bed uptight tonight for the first time since I can remember. Maybe I won't be so
tired from now on because I'm not getting enough rest. You're not through with your prayers. Go on. "Oh,
all right. "And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil." Good! Good! I'll do that. Just
don't put yourself in a place where you can be tempted. "What do you mean by that? Don't turn the
TV on when you know the laundry needs to be done and the house needs to be picked up. Also, about the time you spend
with your friends, if you can't influence the conversation to positive things, perhaps you should rethink the value
of those friendships. Another thing, your neighbors and friends shouldn't be your standard for "keeping up." "And please don't
use me as an escape hatch." " I don't understand that last part." Sure you do. You've done it a lot of times. You get caught in a bad situation. You get in trouble and then you come
running to me: "Lord, help me out of this mess, and I promise you I'll never do it again." You remember some of
those bargains you tried to make with me? "Yes, and I'm ashamed. Lord, I really am." Which bargain
are you remembering? "Well, there was the night that my husband was gone and the children and I were home alone. The
wind was blowing so hard I thought the roof would go any minute and tornado warnings were out. I remember saying, 'Oh God,
if you spare us, I'll never skip my devotions again." I protected you, but you didn't keep your promise,
did you? "I'm sorry, Lord I really am. Up until now I thought that if I just prayed the Lord's Prayer every day, then
I could do what I liked. I didn't expect anything to happen like this. Go ahead and finish your prayer.
"For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory forever. Amen" Do you know what would
bring me glory? What would really make me happy? "No, but I'd like to know. I want to please you. I can see what a
mess I've made of my life. And I can see how great it would be to really be one of your followers. You
just answered the question. "I did?" Yes. The thing that would bring me glory is to have people
like you truly love me. And I see that happening between us. Now that some of these old sins are exposed and out of the way,
there is no telling what we can do together. "Lord, let's see what we can make of me, OK?"--- Yes,
let's see."
Arthur Unknown
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Who'll Take the
Son?
A wealthy man and his son loved to collect rare works of art. They
had everything in their collection, from Picasso to Raphael. They would often sit and admire them. When
the Viet Nam conflict broke out, the son went to war. He was very courageous and died in battle while rescuing another
soldier. The father was notified and grieved deeply for his only son.
About a month later, just before Christmas,
there was a knock at the door. A young man stood at the door with a large package in his hands. He said,"Sir, you don't
know me, but I am the soldier for whom your son gave his life. He saved many lives that day, and he was carrying me
to safety when a bullet struck him in the heart and he died instantly. He often talked about you, and your love for
art.
The young man held out his package. "I know this isn't much. I'm not really a great artist, but I
think your son would have wanted you to have this." The father opened the package. It was a portrait of his son,
painted by the young man. He stared in awe at the way the soldier had captured the personality of his son in the painting.
The father was so drawn to the eyes that his own eyes welled up with tears. He thanked the young man and offered to
pay him for the picture.
"Oh, no sir, I could never repay
what your son did for me. It's a gift." The father hung the portrait over his mantle. Every time visitors came
to his home he took them to see the portrait of his son before he showed them any of the other great works he had collected.
The
man died a few months later. There was to be a great auction of his paintings. Many influential people gathered,
excited over seeing the great paintings and having an opportunity to purchase one for their collection. On the platform
sat the painting of the son. The auctioneer pounded his gavel.
"We will start the bidding with this picture of
the son. Who will bid for this picture?" There was silence. Then a voice in the back of the room shouted
"We want to see the famous paintings, skip this one." But the auctioneer persisted. "Will someone bid for this
painting? Who will start the bidding? $100, $200?" Another voice shouted angrily. "We didn't
come to see this painting.. We came to see the Van Gogh's, the Rembrandts. Get on with the real bids!" But still
the auctioneer continued. "The son! The son! Who'll take the son?"
Finally, a voice came from the
very back of the room. It was the longtime gardener of the man and his son. "I'll give $10 for the painting."
Being a poor man, it was all he could afford. "We have $10, who will bid $20?" "Give it to him for $10. Let's
see the masters." "$10 is the bid, won't someone bid $20?" The crowd was becoming angry. They didn't want
the picture of the son. They wanted the more worthy investments for their collections. The auctioneer pounded the gavel.
"Going once, twice, SOLD for $10!"
A man sitting on the second row shouted. "Now let's get on with the collection!"
The auctioneer laid down his gavel. "I'm sorry, the auction is over." "What about the paintings?" "I am
sorry. When I was called to conduct this auction, I was told of a secret stipulation in the will. I was
not allowed to reveal that stipulation until this time.
Only the painting of the son would be auctioned.
Whoever bought that painting would inherit the entire estate, including the paintings. The man who took the son gets
every thing!"
God gave His son 2,000 years ago to die on a cruel cross. Much like the auctioneer, His message
today is, "The son, the son, who'll take the son?"
Because, you see, whoever takes the Son gets everything.
--author
unknown
Adam was hanging
around the Garden of Eden feeling very lonely. So, God asked him, "What's wrong with you?" Adam said he didn't have anyone
to talk to. God said that He was going to make Adam a companion and that it would be a woman He said, "This pretty lady will
gather food for you, she will cook for you, and when you discover clothing, she will wash it for you. She will always agree
with every decision you make and she will not nag you, and will always be the first to admit she was wrong when you've had
a disagreement. She will praise you! She will bear your children. and never ask you to get up in the middle of the night to
take care of them. "She will NEVER have a headache and will freely give you love and passion whenever you need it." Adam ask!
ed God, "What will a woman like this cost?" God replied, "An arm and a leg." Then Adam asked, "What can I get for a rib?"
Of
course the rest is history......................
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~ DADDY'S EMPTY CHAIR
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"A man's daughter had asked the local minister to come and pray with her father. When the minister arrived, he found
the man lying in bed with his head propped up on two pillows. An empty chair sat beside his bed. The minister assumed that
the old fellow had been informed of his visit. "I guess you were expecting me, he said. 'No, who are you?" said the father.
The minister told him his name and then remarked, "I saw the empty chair and I figured you knew I was going to show up," "Oh
yeah, the chair," said the bedridden man. "Would you mind closing the door?" Puzzled, the minister shut the door. "I
have never told anyone this, not even my daughter," said the man. "But all of my life I have never known how to pray At church
I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer, but it went right over my head." I abandoned any attempt at prayer," the old
man continued, "until one day four years ago, my best friend said to me, "Johnny, prayer is just a simple matter of having
a conversation with Jesus. Here is what I suggest." "Sit down in a chair; place an empty chair in front of you, and in faith
see Jesus on the chair. It's not spooky because he promised, 'I will be with you always'. "Then just speak to him in the
same way you're doing with me right now." "So, I tried it and I've liked it so much that I do it a couple of hours every
day I'm careful though If my daughter saw me talking to an empty chair, she'd either have a nervous breakdown or send me off
to the funny farm." The minister was deeply moved by the story and encouraged the old man to continue on the journey Then
he prayed with him, anointed him with oil, and returned to the church. Two nights later the daughter called to tell the
minister that her daddy had died that afternoon. Did he die in peace?" he asked. Yes, when I left the house about two o'clock, he
called me over to his bedside, told me he loved me and kissed me on the cheek. When I got back from the store an hour later,
I found him dead. But there was something strange about his death. Apparently, just before Daddy died, he leaned over and
rested his head on the chair beside the bed. What do you make of that?" The minister wiped a tear from his eye and said, "I
wish we could all go like that."
I asked God for water,
*He gave me an ocean.
I asked God for a
flower, *He gave me a garden. I asked God for a friend, *He gave me all of YOU.
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.
Happy
moments, praise God.
Difficult moments, seek God.
Quiet moments, worship God.
Painful moments, trust
God.
Every moment, thank God."
Arthur Unknown
thank you Monica
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"Louise Redden, a poorly dressed lady with
a look of defeat on her face, walked into a grocery store. She approached the owner of the store in a most humble manner and asked if he would let her charge a few groceries. She
softly explained that her husband was very ill and unable to work, they had seven children and they needed food. John
Longhouse, the grocer, scoffed at her and requested that she leave his store at once. Visualizing the family needs, she
said: "Please, sir! I will bring you the money just as soon as I can." John told her he could not give her credit, since
she did not have a charge account at his store. Standing beside the counter was a customer who overheard the conversation
between the two. The customer walked forward and told the grocer that he would stand good for whatever she
needed for her family. The grocer said in a very reluctant voice, "Do you have a grocery list?" Louise replied,
"Yes sir." "O.K." he said, "put your grocery list on the scales and whatever your grocery list weighs, I will give you that
amount in groceries." Louise, hesitated a moment with a bowed head, then she reached into her purse and took out a piece
of paper and scribbled something on it. She then laid the piece of paper on the scale carefully with her head still
bowed. The eyes of the grocer and the customer showed amazement when the scales went down and stayed down. The grocer,
staring at the scales, turned slowly to the customer and said begrudgingly, "I can't ! believe it." The customer smiled
and the grocer started putting the groceries on the other side of the scales. The scale did not balance so he
continued to put more and more groceries on them until the scales would hold no more. The grocer stood there
in utter disgust. Finally, he grabbed the piece of paper from the scales and looked at it with greater amazement. It
was not a grocery list, it was a prayer, which said: "Dear Lord, you know my needs and I am leaving this in your hands." The
grocer gave her the groceries that he had gathered and stood in stunned silence. Louise thanked him and left the store. The
other customer handed a fifty-dollar bill to the grocer and said; "It was worth every penny of it... Only
God Knows how much a prayer weighs."
THE POWER OF PRAYER: When you receive this, say a prayer. That's
all you have to do. Just stop right now, and say > a prayer of thanks! for your own good fortune. >
Then please send this to all your friends and relatives. I believe if you will send this testimony out with prayer in >
faith, you will receive what you need God to do in your and your families life. > So dear heart,
trust God to heal the sick, provide food for the hungry, clothes and shelter for those that don't >
have as we do. > Prayer is one of the best free gifts we receive. > There is no cost but
a lot of rewards. > May you always walk with Angels .. God Bless You!"
Author Unknown
thanks Renita
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