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We would love to add your MEMORIES and STORIES
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You probably don't remember me, but I met you a few times at my sister's house, (Julia Brindle). That is also where I met
Justina. I remember her as a very bright and happy child, always laughing. We joked allot with her whenever we visited my
sister. We lived in Canada for 18 years, so our visits were usually two or three times a year. Always when we drove into town
we passed your house first on the way to Julia's and would "beep" at Justina first. When she was younger she was "around"
more. I told Missy then that Justina would be a life long friend, someone she could always count on. I always asked about
her and was pleased that she remembered me as her and Missy got older and spent less time together. My sister called me the
night she died. We were away and my friend looking after the house called right away, as she could tell by Julia's voice that
something was really wrong. I learned of her death sitting on my aunts sofa in Canada, so far away from Julia. I sat and cried
with her and could feel her helplessness and sorrow. I can't even imagine what all of you were going through. My daughter
is 8 and plays soccer. This summer she played a really good team and as I watched the other team I sat upright when I saw
a girl who could have been Justina when she was that age. Her hair and freckles and the determination as she played. I sat
and cried at that game. I couldn't take my eyes off her. I willed her to have a good life and when they beat my daughters
team- it was OK.I didn't mind because the little girl who looked like Justina was on that team. I pointed her out to my daughter
after the game and wanted so much to talk to her. My daughter was "respectful" of my emotions, but didn't understand. Now
when she plays, each team that comes on the field I look for her. I don't know if I have made any sense to you, but I believe
that Justina touched many lives, like mine ,in her short life. I wanted you to know that. I hope my own daughter can grow
to be like her. With love and respect, Dolly LaBelle
I remember Justina, Matt and several other young people we have lost , as their pictures are framed in the bridal
shop. I wish you could be here each time someone comes in and says they worked with Justina or went to school with her and
then they will share a story about Justina. Believe me, her memory is alive and well. Each day when I see her picture, I say
a prayer that God will give you strength, courage and faith to get through the day. Our children are Gods most wonderful blessing.
I feel my purpose in life is to let you know that even though the passage of time may fade some memories, Justina's light
will always shine to those who were lucky enough to know her. Love Trudy Knowlton Bates
Justina's hugs are what I miss the most. She did not give wimpy hugs in fact there were time we thought she was going
to hurt the person she was hugging. A tight squeeze and a dancing twist was her way of letting you know you were hugged. Justina
early in life let us know she would always be in the middle. In the beginning it was when we told her there was not enough
room in our bed, she said yes there is in the middle. As Justina grew up she was not the spotlight nor was she the last to
join in. Justina was always some were in the middle. (a good place to be) Now when I get hugs from her friends my family or
anyone I think to myself "Justina you are in the middle". I just can not get enough hugs! And until I get my next hug from
Justina I will be more then glad to accept one from you and please lets squeeze Justina! Lori/Mom
Justina had the
greatest hug.... I will never forget one time when she was hugging Great Gramma Dombroski....she put her shoulder down like
she was going to tackle her. it was hilarious..... I thought she was going to knock her down....but those were the greatest
ones b/c you knew she meant it. Kara
A lot of you know we called Justina "Boog" It is funny how a nickname sticks. One evening when Justina
was around 6 years old we were watching the movie Revenge of the Nerds. When the movie was over Justina concerned about the
boy called Booger. I explained why they called him that and we all laughed and to tease her we started to call her Booger.
At first she protested but eventually she got just to it. Until she was older and one day in public I called for her "by her
nickname Booger" and boy did I get a look and a lecture on how she did not want me to call her Booger if people would hear
it. So lovingly I asked if Boog would be ok. From that day forward Justina was known as the Boog OH! HOW I MISS MY "BOOG" DAD
We were sitting at Gramma's house and Logan had a ring on. Real pretty blue ring. I told him how pretty the ring was
and I asked him where he got it. He told me, "I got married Mommy". I said you did? He said, "Yep". I then proceeded to ask
him who he married and he turned around and looked in Gramma's living room and said, "I married her. " I was curious and asked
him who and he said "Justina, right?" as if he was asking her to tell us too. I do believe that he connected with her right
then. And this was the first of 3 separate times that he talked to her. I believe that the innocense of little kids allows
them to connect and chat with the angels around us. STORY #2 Logan and I were in the car driving one day and we were singing
along to the radio as best we could, my 4 year old and I. When the song ended I looked over to see what he was doing to make
the noise I heard. He was blowing kisses. I asked him what he was doing and he said he was kissing Justina. What a connection
this little guy has with her. Lisa Perry (Logans mommy)
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This past Halloween we had friends over from England and they had never carved a pumpkin, they were in their
50"s too. As we were carving and cleaning out the insides ken made a face and then smiled really big. it reminded me of the
time the 3 girls were cleaning pumpkins and Justina looked over her shoulder at me with pumpkin all over and gave me and the
camera the biggest smile. We miss her Julie and Mike
I like Miss you Justina Loretta Hartsel (Misujlh@aol.com). We went up on Carter Sunday did some cleaning up and started
stacking wood for a campfire next time we are up. Justina still is touching our lives and many others. I feel many people
stop at the site, I found Justina's slate heart laying on the bench. Someone must have picked it up and put it there It must
have blown off. Justina's spirit touches our lives at different times...somehow Justina seems to expand and surround us with
gentle understanding, compassion and love which has also been felt by others. Anna Lea has had classmates who have come up
to her and shared there experience when up on Carter. One boy had hit the tree and knocked over the bench he totaled his vehicle.
He shared with Anna that before he ever got out of the vehicle he felt someone was there watching over him. When he stepped
out and noticed Justina's stone and read her obituary he knew she was there with him watching over him. We have had ranchers
come up to us whom has stopped by the accident site while getting firewood or moving cows. Justina has touched people from
all walks of life she has touched many emotionally and therefore I believe her tragedy has drawn people closer to God. These
are the things I have been wanting to share with you but hadn't taken the time until now. My apology for taking so long.
Thinking
of you always, Mike, Linda, Hal and AnnaLea
My most precious memory is when Justina was in high school. A few girls of teased her for still calling me
mommy. She was bound to change this and call me mom, but was having a hard time. One day I received a call on the other end
was this person saying "mom" I replied yes, as she continued to talk. After I minute I realized it was not Kara it was Justina.
I laugh and asked Justina is that you? She said yes why? I told her I did not recognize her since she called me mom. She told
me she had to practice as the phone was ringing. This is so precious to me because there is nothing more precious then being
a mommy and being called a mommy. I was lucky Justina let me be her mommy for so long and no matter what the out come of a
child's life we are forever mommies. Take the time to tell your mommy you love her bring back old and wonderful memories! Justina's
Mommy
When we all lived at home.... everyones clothes all went into a big pile at the bottom of the laundry shoot. well I could
never figure out how Justina could manage to get out of her clothes the way she did. her pants, underwear and socks would
all still be connected...... the funniest thing is...since I could never figure it out....I did it the other day..... maybe
she made me do it....so I would think of her. IT WORKED!! Love Kara
I will never forget when we all lived at home and we would have dinner together..... which was quite often. we would
all sit around the table and tell stories. we would all laugh out loud and give advise and keep on telling stories. one thing
I will never forget about Justina is her laugh. it is one of the most distinct sounds. it took over a room. so when you laugh
and think of Justina...she is probably laughing right along with you. Love Kara
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I think I saw an Angel, In my house last night; She was sitting in my bedroom, When I turned off the light. She was elegantly
simple, In a gown of golden mesh, Which glittered in the moonlight, That shone upon her dress. Soft, golden threaded wings,
Fluttered 'round her haloed head; I could barely see them move, As I looked out from my bed. Oh, so tiny ... so petite, Was
I sure that she was there? I took another little peek, And saw her perched upon my chair.
For a moment I was frightened, Yet, I felt assurance, too; I wanted then to pick her up, But my body would not move. "Is
she my Angel, God?" I asked, "Of course she is," He said; "And in the dark of night, She is always by your bed. "In the daylight
hours, She often perches on an ear; Everyone has Angels, And they are always near." So I lay quite still and watched her,
As she fluttered 'round the place; Soon she came up on my pillow, And I swear she brushed my face.
Then, as I watched, she disappeared, She completely left my sight; I lay there just an instant, Then turned on my bedroom
light. I looked into my dresser mirror, And on the cheek that she had brushed, Was the tiny imprint of a kiss, That felt warm
when I touched. Then I looked about the room, And what did my eye behold ... But there upon my pillow case, Was a tiny thread
of gold.
Just like this poem, I believe Justina is a special angel to all of us. I love you and miss you, Justina. Gramma
Newell
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